For April’s feature of Spotlight Series, I spoke with Valentina Padilla who is an advocate of bringing sustainability into our lives through beauty and fashion. Valentina who is the force behind account @sunflowervalentine, and also is the co-founder of @thankyouplantbasedgod with her partner that highlight and showcase ways of interrogating a plant based lifestyle to their viewers (both of which you should be following if you are not). I’ve been following her for a while, and I am very fortunate to say from Instagram we have become friends and I am so excited to share this interview with you guys. We spoke about sustainability, the best ways to thrift and talk about some of her favorite designers.
This was my first interview in person, and I have to say I loved this experience and hope to have more in the future as things start to open up. I hope you all enjoy and make sure to see how I bring sustainability in my own way to my posts this week!
Oil and Threads: How would you describe your style? On Instagram over the last several months you have been sharing these “closet clean outs” where you have been parting with clothing that don’t serve you anymore. With that in mind, what is your approach with buying clothing now?
Valentina Padilla: I strongly want to say that my style is a mixture of both my feminine and masculine energy and when I say that I channel both, if I am very masculine in what I am wearing, I tend to be more feminine and visa versa. I think that approach also reflects my mood and the emotions I am going through, I am not the person that will dress cute if I am feeling like shit. If I am feeling terrible, that will be displayed in how I dress myself that day, or if I am feeling very neutral I will dress in a neutral way. I know there is that cliche of “dress up and you’ll feel better”, but that doesn’t work for me.
How I approach my style when it comes to thrifting, I think about the pieces that I already have. When I go thrifting or shopping, I like to think about what I have and what I don’t need to buy. If I am to purchase something and I know I have a piece at home that serves that same purpose, I have to get rid of the one that I have and find someone else who can use that piece. When you are picking the one item to keep, it has to serve the purpose and you have to be able to up style it with anything.
Every time I go shopping I like to get my partners second opinion because he is very good at being minimal and essential in his wardrobe. He will never tell me yes or no, but will ask me if I will actually wear that, and it is so sincere and is genuinely asking me to think about it if I will wear it and not just because I can afford it but if it will be something I wear. I would say that this is my approach now with thrifting and shopping, because you can get lost in thrifting because you see clothing that is affordable and you just want to style everything, but there is a healthy limit to thrifting!
O&T: What would be your best tips for living a sustainable life and do you think are the best steps to approaching it into ones daily life?
VP: This is such a great question, and one to ask yourself when starting to think about being sustainable. When I started my sustainability journey, I was in a place where I didn’t know where to start, and how to even say if one thing is sustainable or not. I will say that my tip for being sustainable is to take a step back and introduce that level of awareness, for example you can ask yourself my closet sustainable and where is it not?
I think it helps to categorize areas that you can tackle and be successful in, whether that is a closet clean out, changing your diet, or living a better life for yourself and the planet! I think separating those questions will help you become more aware and more conscious of the next step. For example, for myself the next step in being sustainable was cleaning out my closet, getting rid of things that I had in my closet for over four years and just keeping them as a safe keep.
Interesting enough, when I started to think about why I was keeping these things it brought me back to my childhood. When you are little, you want to have everything but that isn’t the case because one you are not working for your things and for many their parents perhaps couldn’t afford that, so you kind of just take what you get. When you are older you have the possibility to perhaps be in a position to get things that you really want, but once you have it then you ask yourself, “so now what”? These items begin to be an impulse to fulfill a gap, and in the end do you really need that? Eventually you will realize and become aware that these impulses and gaps aren’t really serving you.
O&T: How did you find your voice on Instagram, and how do you feel you are able to connect and grow with your audience?
VP: This is also such a good question, and one that I haven’t been asked before. You have to think about your voice and tone, then how it communicates to the right audience because you really want to be engaging with your followers and really hold on to them to continue having conversations with them. I feel like I found my voice with a lot of trial and error, and that is just the process. The process of healing is a long one, and I feel like finding your voice on a digital platform is the same, especially since it changes so much.
However, if you have a foundation of what your values, morals, and what you really care for within your foundation will help you define your stages in finding your voice and tone. I think it really helped having a background in doing this for five years before I did it for myself. If you think about it there are so many different beauty influencers out there, just like there are so many brands out there asking you to go to them, with that being said you have to do research and figure out what works for you and why people want to follow you, and it is an ongoing process., where you shed old skin to grow new skin and this is part of keeping and sustaining your following.
O&T: I have to ask who are some of your favorite designers?
VP: Well I am a huge fan of Stacey Bendet, of Alice and Olivia. Her creations are magical and whimsical, almost child like in her designs. Something that really resonates with me about her designs is that they are youthful and feel like a representation of her, it reminds me to stay young and enjoy it all!
I also love Marc Jacobs and the business that he has created. One thing that I admire about Marc is his ability to create a full range and is very versatile when it comes to fashion. This idea of versatility is something that I find very important in life as it allows you to be open and only helps you see the bigger picture.
Then of course, Telfar. I love how Telfar is able to elevate a community and the space he is creating and pioneering is admirable!
O&T: What would you consider a successful thrifting trip?
VP: I would say going in and buying what you aimed to buy/find! Thrifting is an experience and a journey. You want to be able to style the new pieces you have thrifted with what you have in your closet. But, success is when you actually start using and styling what you have thrifted.